Why it could take decades to report sexual assaults (Cleveland.com) September 25, 2018

“In the weeks since Brett Kavanaugh’s nomination to the Supreme Court, two women have come forward accusing the judge of sexual assault. In response, some people ask: Why come forward now? Why are the details of the incidents so vague? Why weren’t the incidents reported to the police at the time?
“The alleged incidents occurred decades ago, and Kavanaugh has denied they happened.
“The set of details surrounding the Kavanaugh accusations — the fuzzy accounts, the lack of police reports, the long gap between the 1980s, when the women say they happened, and now — are common characteristics of sexual violence cases, Cleveland Rape Crisis Center CEO Sondra Miller said.
“Only a third of sexual assaults are reported to a formal authority, like law enforcement or child services, Miller said. Even then, it can take decades before a someone feels comfortable telling their story.
“Miller sat down with cleveland.com on Monday to discuss sexual violence and provide insight surrounding the Kavanaugh accusations.
“What are the misconceptions surrounding occurrences of sexual violence?
‘I think the one thing that people are most surprised to learn is how prevalent this issue is,’ Miller said. ‘The best research that we have available from the Center for Disease Control says that one out of five women who live in Ohio will be raped in her lifetime. One out of 71 men will be raped in his lifetime. Sexual violence is something that happens far more often than any of us want to admit, and part of that reason is because so few instances are formally reported to authorities.’
“Why do people choose not to report sexual violence to law enforcement?
‘Survivors often feel guilt or blame about what happened,’ Miller said. ‘We also hear quite frequently that survivors feel humiliated. They’re embarrassed by what has happened. They don’t want to tell their friends and their family and their inner circle. They’re interested often in just: how can I pretend this didn’t happen and just keep moving forward.’
“Why does it sometimes take so long for victims of sexual assault to come forward?
‘Just talking about the experiences of survivors who call or walk through the doors of Cleveland Rape Crisis Center, the overwhelming majority of them are coming to us weeks, months, years, possibly even decades after they have been harmed,’ Miller said. ‘A common experience that we hear about is: I just want move on. I just want to pretend this never happened and move on with my life. I’m not interested in talking to anyone about it.’”
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This article was originally published by Mary Kilpatrick at Cleveland.com.
“In the weeks since Brett Kavanaugh’s nomination to the Supreme Court, two women have come forward accusing the judge of sexual assault. In response, some people ask: Why come forward now? Why are the details of the incidents so vague? Why weren’t the incidents reported to the police at the time?
“The alleged incidents occurred decades ago, and Kavanaugh has denied they happened.
“The set of details surrounding the Kavanaugh accusations — the fuzzy accounts, the lack of police reports, the long gap between the 1980s, when the women say they happened, and now — are common characteristics of sexual violence cases, Cleveland Rape Crisis Center CEO Sondra Miller said.
“Only a third of sexual assaults are reported to a formal authority, like law enforcement or child services, Miller said. Even then, it can take decades before a someone feels comfortable telling their story.
“Miller sat down with cleveland.com on Monday to discuss sexual violence and provide insight surrounding the Kavanaugh accusations.
“What are the misconceptions surrounding occurrences of sexual violence?
‘I think the one thing that people are most surprised to learn is how prevalent this issue is,’ Miller said. ‘The best research that we have available from the Center for Disease Control says that one out of five women who live in Ohio will be raped in her lifetime. One out of 71 men will be raped in his lifetime. Sexual violence is something that happens far more often than any of us want to admit, and part of that reason is because so few instances are formally reported to authorities.’
“Why do people choose not to report sexual violence to law enforcement?
‘Survivors often feel guilt or blame about what happened,’ Miller said. ‘We also hear quite frequently that survivors feel humiliated. They’re embarrassed by what has happened. They don’t want to tell their friends and their family and their inner circle. They’re interested often in just: how can I pretend this didn’t happen and just keep moving forward.’
“Why does it sometimes take so long for victims of sexual assault to come forward?
‘Just talking about the experiences of survivors who call or walk through the doors of Cleveland Rape Crisis Center, the overwhelming majority of them are coming to us weeks, months, years, possibly even decades after they have been harmed,’ Miller said. ‘A common experience that we hear about is: I just want move on. I just want to pretend this never happened and move on with my life. I’m not interested in talking to anyone about it.’”
Continue Reading: Why it could take decades to report sexual assaults: Q & A surrounding Kavanaugh allegations