What is Consent?

Consent

Understanding Consent

Consent is an enthusiastic and clear agreement to engage in sexual activity with a partner(s). This means you need to ask your partner if they want to engage in sexual activity with you, instead of assuming that they do. Below are some important things to remember:

  • No means no AND yes means yes. Even if a person seems into it doesn’t mean that they are.
  • Having sex with someone once does not indicate consent for future sexual encounters. Ask every time!
  • If you or your partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you may not be able to give proper consent. Chances are you don’t know how much they’ve had to drink, how much they’ve had to eat, what their alcohol or drug tolerance level, etc.
  • You can decide you do not want to continue a sexual encounter at any point. It is not rude, unfair, or mean. Consent can be taken away at any time!
  • Coercion to engage in sexual activities can be a sign of an unhealthy relationship and might mean there is not consent. Examples of coercion are: guilting you into doing something, convincing you that you owe them, claiming that sex is proof that you love them, threatening to harm themselves if you say no, etc.
  • If your partner takes off a condom or any type of protection without your knowledge, that is not consensual, even if you consented to sex before.

Want to learn more about consent, or continue the conversation with your classroom or organization? Request an education program with Cleveland Rape Crisis Center’s Prevention & Education team today.

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